Accepting reality is the first step. Stop fighting against what is beyond your control, it’s a fight you’ll never win. You’ll keep hurting and exhausting yourself until you go back to Step 01: Accepting reality. Reality is you cannot control what’s inside people’s mind, because the program that runs in there didn’t start with you and it won’t end with you either. Might as well focus on what is within your control: you, your thoughts and choosing perspectives about life that lead to peace. Know that what is meant for you won’t reject you. How can it? It’s meant for you! That’s the second step. Now go on young Jedi, have a great day!