Debating can feel exhausting, especially when it shows up around everything. For many 8 year olds, this isn’t about being argumentative. It’s about practicing thinking out loud, testing ideas, and learning how to hold their ground while staying connected. The hard part is knowing when to engage and when to lead. Not every moment needs a discussion, and not every debate needs to be “won.” Save this for the days when conversations feel longer than they need to be.
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