Middle childhood is when friendships start to feel less predictable. Kids move between people and groups, closeness shifts, and the rules of belonging aren’t always clear yet. That uncertainty can be unsettling, even when connection exists. When kids feel unsure socially, they often need understanding before reassurance. Reflecting the feeling helps their nervous system settle so they’re not carrying it alone. From there, it can help to gently expand what connection looks like. Friendship doesn’t have to be intense, constant, or clearly labeled to matter. One familiar peer, a shared activity, or easy interaction still count. Helping kids recognize these forms of connection supports flexibility and confidence as friendships continue to change. That steadiness matters far beyond this moment. #MiddleChildhood #SocialDevelopment #NervousSystemSupport #ParentingWithConnection #EmotionalRegulation