The one thing that Wendy Williams personally told me was “Bianca, people will always judge you...even when they’re being nice, they’re judging the crap outta you.” And the woman was RIGHT! In the last few days I’ve felt stress infiltrate and exit my body in many ways. Mostly through headache, neck pain and just overall body aches. As someone who works out daily, I’m used to pain but this type of aching is different. I don’t want to air my dirty laundry here bc that’s not the point but it’s tough when you’re going through a major life event or accident and people just want to pick you a part. I’ve honestly always been someone who gets picked apart. I think that’s why it’s so easy for me to openly share my life because I expect to get picked apart. I expect to be judged. I expect to be stereotyped. No matter how much I expect it though...it doesn’t get any easier to process it. I’m a human being who wants love just as much as the next person. And if there’s anything I can share with you, it’s to remind you that the stranger next to you on the subway/metro or in front of you in line at the grocery store WANTS LOVE. Your friends want love. Your partner wants love. We all want love. But it’s honestly up to you to give it. And that’s the challenge. You can either silently judge or you can dish out some love. Why not do the unexpected? BTW, I love these pics bc for me they symbolize a moment of being so far away from my life/home, that all I could do is be the purest form of myself and love the earth, sea and freakin’ cows. It’s a level of love and gratitude that we often lack when we’re not on a remote island but rather lost in the hustle and bustle of our lives. I think I may need a vacation...😉