That pull your ex has on you will pass. I promise all that crying, the pain and anxiety will lessen and you’ll refocus on what makes you feel like yourself again❤️. After half a year I started dating again and I was seeing this guy for 3 months but I realised I wasn’t ready whatsoever LOL luckily I caught it early because I tend to fall so quickly that I ignore all the red flags and drag on a situation that doesn’t serve me. When I say red flags, it wasn’t just him who had them ...I had my own red flags 😅. I was still emotionally turbulent, craving drama because I was so used it in my past relationship, becoming quickly clingy and self doubtful etc But when I began to observe my actions and how my life was playing out, I knew I had to unlearn those habits and make changes and that’s exactly what I’ve been doing. Really enjoying this single life🥰, and not requiring validation from someone else. Keep working on you, healing is never linear and that’s ok! ❤️❤️❤️ Wanted to share this post because you deserve to feel at peace. Chronic exposure to stress is emotionally draining AND can also alter the diversity and composition of gut microbiota ☹️☹️😩and we don’t want that!! Put yourself first ok?! K love you!! Your gal, Liz ❤️❤️❤️ #relationship #selflove #singlelife #growth #change #learning #unlearning #friends #family #peace #solo #solodates #confidence #toxic #redflags #guthealth #microbiota