sample of my early romantic life me: looking for books on wicca @ my public library and searching the shelf for a particular volume only to realize it was under the arm of another 12 y/o patron. I slipped him my AIM screen name assuming this was my sliding doors moment, but i think he could sense that I was spending my free time making a Geordi La Forge visor out of toothpicks and cardboard, and never followed up