last night, 11:09pm, Melissa lost her harrowing fight with cancer, a year and a half later. my brother has lost his life partner. i’ve lost a sister and a friend. this is how i’d like to remember her. being loved and cared for by my brother, Jimmy - a man i have so much love, pride and respect for. wearing ugly Christmas sweaters Dec 25th, 2020. reminding me to have more grace. for giving perspective. for her weird aversion to Instantpot and flowers. she was always concerned for others, to the very end. selfless. i miss you, Melissa fka San San 瑪麗莎