Never let the fatphobic words of others get to you or define you. It is my experience that people who spew fatphobia either used to be fat themselves or have a deep hatred for bigger people and fear gaining weight themselves. It's called "projection" honey. There is also this false concern for our health that serves as an excuse to bully us about being fat. None of these people actually care about our health or our well-being and they pretend to so they may feel better about putting us down. Only you know the truth about how it feels to be in your body and what your lifestyle actually looks like. If people want to assume that you only eat fast food and are lazy because you are big, then let them. You don't live to convince or please others. Live your life for you. ✨️