My wedding is on Saturday but I don't think I want to go ahead again. My husband to be has an ex fiance who the whole family knows and they've been together for five years. He didn't marry her because they are both AS and I am AA. She's a caterer and handles all their occasions as am told. She's the one they've contracted to handle catering on Saturday but l've seen h£ll. The whole family knows and loves her. She's always addressing my man as odogwu, dear, bros and all those words that she's supposed to know she should put boundaries to when I'm around. They hug sh@melessly and he even pecks her on the forehead. His mom refers to her as my daughter and calls me by my name. She's always calling him and they will be on long talk on phone, she even stays on phone when I'm with him while he attends to me. He said they've known for 10yrs before they started dating and she's family. I feel thr£@tened already and don't know what to do. I can't from now be f1ght1ng another woman over a man who has refused to give me full credit as his woman. Any small thing the mom will say my son likes this o, go and ask Tope how to do it or go and ask Tope how he likes it. just don't feel comfortable again with all these and everything has been paid for. He even said we will be ordering food from her when we marry that he doesn't want to str£ss me and she was smiling saying I know you like food especially when it's cooked by the best chef in the world called Tope. Ah I wanted to enter the ground. The day I cooked he was just neutral about it, no praising me nothing and me I'm a star cook in my house Not a chef though. Please advice