Why would I want to give up orgasms? ⠀ When I came across Karezza, this ancient and strange style of sex, during the initial stages of my explorations, I thought, “hmm, that’s an interesting theory, but...”⠀ ⠀ Nah, I’m not doing it. Not for me. I’m fine thanks. Why don’t you take away all my other pleasures while you’re at it, like my Texas bbq and my lattes? ⠀ It was a hard sell for me to move beyond my pleasure-seeking mammalian brain hard-wired to propagate the species. ⠀ After reading about the theory behind it for the past year, ⠀ I tried it for myself. ⠀ My fellow brave explorer and I referred to the diagrams and the simple instructions. It felt clumsy and awkward at first, not “sexy” at all in the usual sense. ⠀ AlI can say is, I’d give away all my future orgasms. ⠀ And my Texas bbq. ⠀ And the lattes ⠀ to feel like I’ve been plugged into the life-force of the universe again. ⠀ Take it all. ⠀ It’s been a week or so, since I tasted the possibilities of this new (actually ancient) style of sex. ⠀ I’ll admit, part of me wonders, “have I fallen down some sort of elusive rabbit hole? Will I want my orgasms and conventional sex back next week? ⠀ Maybe. The verdict is still out. ⠀ Do I think you should try Karezza? ⠀ No. ⠀ Perhaps, sexual styles are like diets: what works for one body, mind, and spirit won’t necessarily work for another. ⠀ So why am I sharing now? ⠀ Simply because, if there are other sensitive, energetic, spiritual, sensual and romantic types like me, you might like to know there is another door you can open, so subtle it’s easy to miss. (I would have liked to have known earlier about Karezza.) ⠀ And well, I’m going this way.💃🏻✨