once you detach from all the "what if" and the "i should be like this" versions of yourself and focus on the path in front of you the faster you'll figure yourself out. it's awesome to think of all the different potentials you could have but what good are they if all those options paralyze you from moving forward? once you take that first step and face the You of right now everything will slowly fall into place. what you value, what you wanna do, what makes you feel fulfilled, what sacrifices/things must you compromise or have to do to create opportunity, what you actually enjoy and who you want to be around.