In the latest #HolaPapi, @jpbrammer responds to a question from someone who recently ended their first relationship, and is dealing with self-doubt and regret. “I feel like I’ve lost my favorite, most important person in my life, and I don’t know if that means it was love and I messed up, or if it was co-dependence. Papi, how do you know something is right? How do you know you’re with someone you have a future with? How do you know you’re in love if you’ve never been in it or even in a relationship before? How do you know if you’re unhappy because you’re unhappy, or if you’re unhappy in your relationship?” Tap the link in bio for Brammer's answers and advice. Illustration by @pedronekoi