in arguments or conflicts with one another, its unfortunately common to see either side condemning the other with criticism and rejection, beFore they even bother to understand where the other is coming from and their intention. Such a sight is essentially watching the accuser verbally attack the victim with words that defend their own ego, their own self image (attachments) all at the expense of a harmonious connection with the other, thus making it more difficult to progress back into union, and also more difficult to heal from. The ego fights to defend all these things that make up its own image, often always at the expense of the comfort or suffering of another. When we operate from a toxic ego that is in service to self, life is usually difficult. But when we learn to serve others, thru understanding their positions thru compassion, we can better converge both sides into a harmonious union, from a chaotic dissonance. Ultimately, nobody's spirit wants chaos or dissonance with another, but the ego on the other hand wants alllll the smoke. All of it. The ego doesn't give a damnnnn about how deep your love is, it. wants. all. the. smoke. (without remorse) if it has lost its grounding thru a lack of LOVE, is essentially what it comes down to. Well, we learn love when its shown. Show your "enemy's" love (but not tolerance), because with enough love, this enemy could become a friend. But more importantly, we stress ourselves out by creating feelings of hate towards this person. Its like drinking poison, hoping the other to be poisoned. doesn't work. we have to forgive so that we stop drinking our own poison at every thought of this "enemy" that arises. There is always a gift of light in every shadow, no matter how dark. we can always find it, and its usually found thru compassion (the ability to understand). Use your heart to feel what you know.🗝️👁️ Listen to the hearts of all, so that we can shift the collective dream into one of greater love. The self serving ego nightmare we are all enduring right now, eases up with every step we take towards ensuring more harmonious communication and interactions, making a critical step towards world peace.🌴