going to a wedding solo and single used to trigger the insecurity I had of not having found my person yet. In the last year especially, I’ve really done the work to shift my mindset around the relationship with myself — getting really clear about what makes me happy and how I want to feel, and as simple as it can sound, putting those things first above all. prioritizing working on the relationship you have with YOU is most important but can also be the most challenging. doing the work isn’t easy; it’s uncomfortable and hard, which is why a lot of people don’t do it. I can confidently say it’s the most rewarding work I’ve ever done, which is why I continue to do it. it feels so damn good to feel the confidence that I’ve always wanted. it feels so damn good to value what you deserve and feel strong in that. by no means does this mean I still don’t struggle or get triggered at times, but the growing respect I have for my relationship with myself has allowed me to be more content with the journey ahead.