For Mother’s Day, I wrote about Angela Garbes’s landmark new book Essential Labor, which I wish could become as ubiquitous in the life of well-resourced parents like me as the expensive strollers and the minimalist wooden bullshit; here I wrote for the first time about my experience of pandemic mothering, too. Here’s to the caregivers (📸s here of Catina, Sylvia, and Andrew’s miraculous dad John; not pictured are queens Sandy and Naomi) who take care of Paloma for way more hours on weekdays than we do — and to @domesticworkers, there for the women and mothers who make mothering possible for so many 💐 link in bio!