Whether love for ourselves or someone else - it’s not a prerequisite for a happy and healthy live (whatever that even means). ⁣ ⁣ IF anything, when someone says “love yourself more” it’s a dismissive statement founded upon toxic positivity that suggest that if we do 1 thing - pursue 1 experience - that it can fix us. Sowwy! Life’s too complex and miserable for such a quick fix. ⁣