Your 12-year-old’s “random” facts aren’t random. They’re bids for connection. The brain needs safety before it risks vulnerability. That’s why tweens rarely lead with their biggest feelings. Instead, they test the waters with lighter comments. When you respond with curiosity, rather than brushing it off, you’re telling them: “Your voice matters here.” That’s how trust is built. That’s how you earn the big conversations later. Big Kids, Bigger Feelings shows you how to spot these everyday connection bids and respond in ways that strengthen trust, empathy, and resilience. Comment: BOOK to preorder and get your bonuses #BigKidsBiggerFeelings #ParentingTips #Parenting12YearOld #ChildDevelopment #TweenParenting #SeedAndSew