When we hit that spot in a relationship where we say, “This can’t keep happening”, what do we do? Here are 4 things we need to consider: 1. Is this a pattern of behavior? 2. Is this a mistake? 3. How often is this happening? 4. How severe is this? And from my experience, now is always the right time to address things in a relationship. Learn more about the spectrum of severity and the spectrum of occurrence in my new book, Good Boundaries and Goodbyes. When you preorder through the link in my profile you can gain access to the first 3 chapters to begin reading immediately.