I know this trend is meant for the tall girls and the plus-size girls, and technically, I’m not either anymore. But can I still be a big mama, please? Not just because I spent most of my life in a much bigger body (see the next photo), but because I still feel big. I still see myself as thick. And that’s not a bad thing to me. Am I as big as I was before? Of course not. But I still feel bigger than what society tries to tell us is beautiful. Part of that is body dysmorphia, I know. It’s hard to unsee the version of myself I lived in for decades. But also, based on the stats you see in this photo, I’m not small. And that’s okay! If someone said they wouldn’t describe me as small, I wouldn’t be offended, I’d say that’s accurate! Technically, I’m mid-size, somewhere between straight size and plus size. So maybe I’m not big, but I’m not small either. What I am is healthy. And happy. And free. 🥰 Not defined by labels like big or small, just proud of the body I’m in and the journey that got me here! 🤗